The Real Beauty of Our Personality

The real beauty of our personality is not the beauty of our face but it is the prettiness of our mind and our attitude. Outer beauty or apparent beauty is not a guarantee of a good personality. For making our lives from good to best, inner beauty is more important than outer one. 

Our personality is the combination of our face, beliefs, mindset, attitudes, and behavior. It is also a fact that we must try to make our appearance looks good because the apparent presentation is also matters. We take good care of our dress, face and our expression because it will help us in leading a good life. But it is not enough to improve our personality.

We must also focus on our conversation, our facial expressions, our body language and behavior. All these are affected by our mindset and attitude about the people and things around us. We must increase our span of knowledge, broadness of ideas and depth of views. In this way, we can present ourselves in a more presentable and attractive way. An ignorant or careless person usually gets less attraction by others.

We see, nowadays, there is more focus on our physical beauty and attractiveness. Media is occupied almost fully by beauty tips, smartness, dresses jewelry and cosmetics. All channels are presenting adds regarding these. They place a larger space in our budgets. 

It is also a fact that good looking people are treated more gently and respectfully. They secure jobs, social acceptance and marital 

Matches too. If selection is based on all these bases, the results will not be definitely positive.  If job is given on this base, the performance is not assured. Especially, in the case of marital matches, it will be short timed happiness. Physical beauty is temporary, and goes not guarantee successful relations. Inner beauty is more durable and provide real happiness.    

The real beauty comes from strong character, honesty, loyalty and sense of responsibility. If a person loses these qualities, how much physically attractive he will be, he cannot be considered a good person. With all these basic qualities, physical beauty can be considered a gift. That must be handled with care and wisdom.

Be Honest in Your Life

Honesty is the best policy, it is a famous saying, and it really works. This characteristic is very valuable for our whole lives, individual, collective, and national. To make our lives go from good to best, honesty is a crucial factor, the key to success.

Honesty is a way or path, that is based on reality, truth, and facts. It is safe, respectable, and straight, and it guarantees success. Honest people are always confident, and brave, and feel free and happy.

It is a very vast term and covers our whole lives and matters. First of all, we must be honest with ourselves. We must be aware of our grey and bright areas, our circumstances, our boundaries and limits, and our required behavior. Our self-perception must be right and based on reality. In this way, we can lead a successful life by choosing positive directions for us and making practical and good decisions.

On the second level, we must be sincere with our related people, including our family members, our friends, co-workers, nneighbors,and other community fellows. We must do what is in the interest of our own and in the favour of all others. With a collective mindset, we can do better as compare to only an individual approach.

On a higher level, we can do something that can be only in the favor of our country and nation. At this stage, we forget our- selves, and the benefit of our relatives and loved ones and think only for others and our people and nation. At this stage, we serve on a very superior level, and forget all other relatively minor ones.

We can find these types of examples all around us, in the case of heavenly people, religious leaders, and national leaders. We see in the history of the world, so many people like that. All profits are the perfect examples of these people, like Hazrat Mohammad PBUH, Hazrat Abraham, the Jesses, and many more. They lead their whole lives for the sake of the guidance of their people. They have to face a lot of unbearable hardships in this way.

Then we see some examples in other people as well, like Mohammad Ali Jinnah, Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther King Jr., Yasir Arafat. They devoted their lives for the sake of their people in a very positive way. They changed the history and the luck of their people, by sacrificing their own personal lives. These are all the saviors of mankind.

How to Make Your Children Less Involved in Mobile Games?

It is a very common problem faced by today’s parents that their children are spending more of their time in playing on mobiles. Mobiles are very beneficial for getting knowledge and recreation as well, but a balance is a must. Balance is the key to success and can make our lives go from good to best.

The Internet and mobile devices are inventions that are the most used today. Everyone has a mobile in his pocket, despite its quality or price. It has become an inevitable part of our lives. We feel emptiness, in its absence. Its effectiveness depends upon its time of usage, and the purpose and aim of usage.

In the present era, its usage is crucial. In the educational sector, it has replaced libraries. All kinds of data and information are available on net and these are really authentic at the most. Due to joblessness, a vast number of people are working and earning their livings through internet.  It is not only easy and comfortable but in many cases more profitable. Not only that, in household issues, it provides full guidelines, in an easy and smart way, with demonstration. It is really a blessing.

In the case of students, especially small ones, when they are not supposed to use internet in the above spirit, its excessive usage can be negative. They can face:

• Health and eyesight issues

• Sleep disturbances

• Obesity

• Delayed social development

• Depression

We must adapt some strategies to manage its manage it. 

1. Excessive usage of everything is negative. We must make a practical schedule for our children, with their consent, so that they have to follow.

2. We must provide opportunities for physical games and must also participate with them. 

3. Their home-work, examinations must not be compromised in any case. They can use it after getting free.

4. Our bond with children must be very strong. We must give them time in their school and recreational activities.

5. We must supervise their routines and no space for negligence is there.

6. Our communications with our children must be very effective, so that they may share their personal issues with us.

7. They must be aware of their limits regarding time and usage.

8. Our role model plays the most important one. If we present our good examples in front of our children, because they follow more our actions than our sayings.

What are Our Top Distractions? How Can We Deal with Them?

Distractions mean the factors that can make it difficult to achieve our targets. It is also right that distractions are always there. We must be aware of these distractions so that we can fight against them. It will not be so easy because these are sometimes so powerful that they hack our attention. So, it will be a long term and consistent process and a key towards the life from good to the best.

The first and for most is to find out these distracting ones and in most cases we have become so habitual of them that this notification will be the real issue. So, to start this may require a lot of sensibility and maturity towards life. it can be considered the key to success. 

One reason of these distractions may be due to joblessness or a lot of free time. If we are with a busy life schedule, it will be a real blessing. Some people, after their jobs may remain busy in these distractions. In this way we can compromise our relations, our health and our image. 

Recreation in our lives is must. It is usually quire some activity that can give us satisfaction, relaxation and pleasure. It can be some game, TV watching, computer games or visit to your favorite place. In this way, we may not consider these as distraction. These are helping tools not for our physical and mental health, better job performance and positive relations. 

A balanced approach is must to lead a positive. If we are leading a positive life, trying to perform our obligations and responsibilities, then not to engage yourself in any recreational activity, it will not be a positive approach. We have to make a very balanced and practical schedule for us, according to our age, gender and situation. It will help us leading a good and successful life.

Importance of Early Education

Education means the process of learning through different sources. Early education, then refers to the character building that occurs in the early life years. It starts when the child is born and attaches to his family, especially his mother. How he was treated and what kind of habits he developed all depended on his early life span. We can make his life from good to best by providing him with good nutrition, training, and opportunities.

Education can be formal or informal. In-formal education starts from the first day but formal education can be started at a different stage of life. Usually, it starts with playgroup classes. It has both pros and cons. Children can interact with teachers and other children of their age group. It helps him to socialize in a better way. As far as cons are concerned, it can have some negative aspects like small children can feel lonely and unsafe. These can develop some negative feelings in these small children. 

The type of education or institution is also very important. In schools, where fees is low or minimal, children are treated strictly and harshly. It can damage the personalities of these small children. Then they can develop feelings of inferiority and shatters their confidence. So, regardless of fee structure, these innocent children must be treated very carefully.

Contrarily, in institutions, where high fee structure is involved, small students are treated in such a way, that makes them pampered. This again is not in favour of these small angles. In these institutions teachers are treated as subordinate to their students. This is awful situation, that can be negative not only for students, but for teachers as well. It can sabotage the purpose of education.

A good educational system must be presented a balanced way. These institutions must present an ideal place, where teachers must be considered as very important and respectable people who teach their students with maximum love and care. Students must be treated in such a way, they must feel protected and cared for. In this way, an educational system can produce very positive results, educationally, socially and morally. It will guarantee a healthy and positive society, which is the real aim of any educational system.

 

Importance of the Knowledge of Psychological Disorders

To know anything is far better than of being ignorant. Knowledge gives us confidence, awareness, learns how to deal with different issues and as a result makes our lives from good to best. We can face hard times in a better way.

The true information about different aspects of world can make it easier to lead our lives in a more positive direction. On the other way round, we can be trapped easily in different issues. These issues can destroy the liveliness and can snatch the aim in lives.

Knowledge about disorders, physical and psychological is very important. For physical ailments, there is an acceptance and there so many facilities are available. These are not only well accepted, but a sympathetic attitude is prevalent in society. Contrarily, psychological disorders are not well accepted and people with these disorders are viewed in a very strange and unsympathetic way.

When any person has to face any psychological disorder, due to lack of knowledge, he has to face additional negative feelings. Family members could not understand the issue and miss handle the situation. Other related people, like teachers, friends and also usually react is the same way. If there will be some awareness is there, they try to ignore or hide it due to the persistence of a Taboo regarding these issues. 

If the knowledge regarding psychological issues, on an ordinary level and on educational level. In this way an understanding regarding these disorders can make this world a better place for dealing with them. In this way, the patients can be treated in a sympathetic way and the related ones can also feel better.

The knowledge of psychological disorders can make them less troublesome. The clarity of mind and acceptance of them, can decrease the disturbance. The acceptance in family and society, can make the treatment procedure easier. 

These disorders are same as physical disorders. It is a fact that psychological disorders are not usually fatal, but these are more disturbing not for patients but also for the related people. Early diagnosis is of key importance, just like physical ailments. It can help in better system of treatment. To create a better understanding of psychological issues and to treat these in a positive way, its knowledge is must.

How to Celebrate Our Sweet Eid

Eid is a celebration of happiness after passing a full month of fasting and other related sacred acts of worship. This celebration under divine guidance can give us true happiness and can lead towards a life that can make it from good to best. It is the secret of a successful life. 

Then it is legitimate and desirable to celebrate this day with happiness, by dressing up in good clothes, eating good food and by meeting other loved ones wholeheartedly. With all these happy activities, we must share our delight with those who don’t have enough resources. This may give us a deep sense of satisfaction and happiness.

In all these celebrations, one thing that is of key importance is balance. Extravagance in making dresses, and making so many dishes is not commendable. In this way, we will waste a lot of valuable money, in a couple of days which can suffice a lot of needy people. 

Eid is in fact an inevitable part of Ramadan and is a continuation of it. At the end of the month of self-control, sacrifice and care for people in need, we celebrate our Eid with these. 

It is a day of happiness in a global sense. We can share our dresses and food on this special occasion with those who cannot afford it. In this way, we can really make it a day of happiness in its true sense. If we take care of some people in our circle, by doing in the same way, we can spread these feelings in a global way, which is required. 

One very important point regarding Ramadan and Eid is that we must try our best to continue all these spiritual activities, for the whole year. It is human nature that usually we may forget them gradually but our total effort is desirable in this way.

We must train our children to practice this routine along with us to continue this in future. When we do practice it, our children will definitely learn and will automatically continue in their lives in future. In this way, we may create a society with good habits, which is required from us.