Negativity of Jealousy

 Feelings of jealousy and feelings of desire to achieve some ones’ better position are related feelings but are not the same. Negativity of jealousy feelings are not positive, so we must travel from good to best.

 

Jealousy is one of negative qualities or attitudes like a lie, cheating and bribery. The negativity of these feelings is obvious. These create troubles not only for the people but for the whole society. The balance of human life is disturbed due to them. These negative attitudes create feelings of restlessness and resentment on the part of the person having them. On the other hand, the sufferings these people create for them from whom they are jealous. These can destroy our relationships as well.

 

Jealousy means feelings of resentment and anger towards someone when he got something better than you. These feelings will lead to doing something negative to achieve that desired thing. It can be some act undesirable or illegal, or by creating something negative with the targeted people. Both of these things are obviously negative. These feelings can be natural but undesirable. So, we have to struggle to control these ones by doing some steps. These steps can be hard but will benefit in the end:

1. The first step is to recognize these feelings. It is not necessary at all to tell others about them.
2. The second step can be to justify the others’ position and feelings of acceptance.
3. Then try to analyze your shortcomings and flows. In this way, we can improve our own condition. Some changes can be made in ourselves to improve our performance. This will be a positive reaction.
4. Do not compare yourself with others. All have different characteristics, negative and positive. No one can have all the good ones and nobody can have anything from them. So, we must satisfy ourselves, whatever we have.
5. It does not mean that we must give up. We must do every positive struggle to achieve our goals. We must be persistent to have them.
6. Jealousy creates feelings of burning but positive competition creates feelings of competition and achievement. We must have a positive competition in our lives, not by pushing others but by pulling ourselves ahead.
7. We must also be contained in whatever we have. It will create a feeling of relaxation and goodness which will help us to lead a positive and peaceful life.

In a society free from jealousy, it will be a progressive one. Due to that negative feeling, many kinds of moral crimes will be there. People feel bad about others' success. Then they try to pull their legs by hook or crook. In families, people do harmful things with the people, to whom they are jealous. This will destroy the peace of family life and ultimately the social life. It is a huge loss, we cannot afford it. Stay calm and positive.