Journey from Negativity to Positivity

 There are always two sides of everything, positive and negative. Human beings are the best creation and have given the choice of good and bad after describing right and wrong ways. So, we must do our journey from negativity to positivity.

 

Everyone has a negativity and a positivity inside. It is the right of the person to choose the best way. In this way, we can create a change in a positive way, not only in ourselves but in our surroundings as well. This change is definitely not a sweet cake to

 

eat. It demands a struggle, a battle with our negativity. If we have the desire to improve ourselves, we have to do something about that.   For this, we must have a deep understanding of our grey areas and light areas as well. In this way, we can better able to enhance our light areas and improve the grey ones. This will be the first and foremost step. Then with a very positive attitude, we can make an effort towards our desired direction.

Some important steps can be helpful:

 

1. Have a smile on your face:

It will look good to generally have a smile on your face. It will improve your image. In a society where everyone is in tension and stress. So, our smile with good remarks can decrease the level of this tension. It will be a great improvement.

 

2. Start changing your behaviour:

The key factor in this regard is to try to make a change in our attitude and mode of action. One example can help you in this way; I was travelling some years back. One girl was sitting beside me. Her way of talking was so good and impressive and I was forced to appreciate her. Then she told me about it that she was a very spoiled type of girl. Her family members were not happy with her. Then she realized the negativity of her own self. When she really struggled to make a positive change in her behaviour by changing her way of talking and behaving, she found a very positive change in others. So, it is not impossible at all. We should first make new habits and then our habits will make us.

 

3. Avoid overthinking:

It is a fact that our own minds are our best friends and our worst enemies as well. If you think excessively and negatively, then your attitude will also go towards the negative side and in the case of positive thinking, results will be accordingly. So, we should make our minds positive, if we want to make our behaviour positive.

 

4. Try to contact with positive people:

There is an effect of the people around us. If we meet more with the people, who have a good attitude regarding world and people, then it will affect us definitely. So we try to include positive people in our friend’s list.

 

Our life is limited and nobody can live forever. It is very important to lead a good life with a longer-lasting positive impact. If our impact on people and society is not good, then we will not leave a good image, it will not be better for us but will also be bad for our generations.