Party Manners And Good Etiquette Of Eating In Public Parties

 

Eating manners at parties

Party manners and good etiquette of eating in public parties is the basic need of the day in our country. Do not rush like ill-mannered people. Be civilized. This is the most important reality which must be taken care of. Wearing a party suit and when the call for dinner is heard that the dinner is served why we rush like a hungry person. Food will never finish. I can get what I need. If I take more than what I need I might not digest the food and get sick. What will I gain out of it? This bad culture has been built up so vastly in this society, the more we want to leave the more we dig into it.

In a party

Once I was attending a congregation. There were about 100 people present. It was at night time and dinner was to be served. When the dinner was served everyone rushed to the dining table and were surprised to see that the dining plates were filled with pieces of meat and vegetables. Those plates were placed nicely on the table. There was no rush. The organizer said if the guests want to eat more they will fill the guest plate. So there was no fuss. Although it was a forced civilized manner, it worked. 

Behaving good

Need not to write about how bad we behave. The question is how to behave like a human being. What do we get out of this inhuman attitude? Whom are we impressing? On one occasion, one person was behaving badly he was interrupted and was asked why he was misbehaving? He said I have paid for this food. I have the right to eat plenty. This is absolutely not the way of our culture and our religion. We have been created good to the best of the creation in this universe.