The Best Way To Predict Your Future Is To Create It

“The Best Way to Predict Your Future is to Create it” is a quotation given by Abraham Lincoln, who was a renowned political personality. This quote says that the best way to know what is coming in to be an active participant. By creating your future, you are an active player in creating the events in your future. By knowing what you want to achieve in life can guide and motivate you to act accordingly, to achieve it. In this way, we can make our future life from good to best.

 

Futures are taken as un-for-seen, which is an approach, which is prevalent in common. But a more positive one is future thinking is to strategic design that considers what is likely to change and what is likely to stay the same in the future. It may be more helpful in planning our future life.

 

It is also a fact that “There is no tomorrow to remember if we don't do something today” (Thomas Monson). We must lead our present fully with purpose, encouragement and satisfaction. This will lead towards a secure and better future.

 

Everyone wants a secure life, which means a secure future. We all struggle for it for the majority of our lives. We can make our future better by adopting some simple strategies and by changing our lifestyles like:

1. Have A Positive Attitude:

Positivity in life is always a credit. Having a progressive lifestyle, taking different changes in life with acceptance and plane for the future with prayer and hope can make our future life better than our present.

2. Visualize your desired future:

To have realistic dreams in our lives is a blessing but having dreams is not enough at all. We have to do purposeful struggle with motivation, to have them, in our lives. 

3. Connect with a Life Coach: 

Human support is always valuable in achieving big goals in our lives. Without guidance and motivation, it is usually difficult to achieve anything in life. We have to have some moral support with us, we have to have someone's guidance in difficult situations. 

4. Set Life Goals:

If we want to have a secure future, we must set some goals and then we must plan the necessary steps to make our aim easy to achieve.

5. Be Optimistic in life:

An optimistic attitude is essential. It can work as oxygen for life.

6. Take Responsibility for Your Own Actions: 

If we make others responsible for our miss-happenings, then we cannot improve our lives. We must do whatever we want thoughtfully.

7. Work in a Positive Work Environment:

Our environment is of great importance. In encouraging circumstances, it will be easier to perform in a desirable way.

8. Be Flexible:

One must not be rigid in our life goals. In this way, we will limit our success. We must be flexible in this selection of goals. Wider the canvas, wider the list of opportunities in life. 

9. Take Small Steps Towards Big Goals:

If we have very big aims, we will feel difficult to achieve them. So. It is important to divide our big goals into small goals. In this way, we will be encouraged, which is a key to success.

10. Take Care of Yourself:

In all this process, we must take care of ourselves by taking good care of our health, diet and rest. If we ignore ourselves, we cannot do anything good for ourselves.

It will be very positive to make our lives good with the help of praying, planning, doing good efforts and being positive. This positivity can create positive changes around us.

Why Stationery For Home Is Important?

 

It is important because we have many things to remember and keep track of. What is stationery? A piece of paper and a pencil.

The rest are its helpers like a notebook, sharpener, rubber, rack, fountain pen, ink, ink-remover, paper clip, stapler, punch machine, file cover, file rack, etc. There are some documents which you cannot have them in soft copy. You have to have them in a hard copy. Driving license, your national identity card, your passport, your bank credit card, your bank checkbook, your educational degrees. All these are in hard copy. You keep them in a place where they are kept safe. For this, you need a shelf which carries some partitions to put these documents in a proper manner. Besides this, we need a writing table and a chair too. We also need some small notebook or a pad to note down our busy day work plan. We also need to have a grocery list in which we write down. The bills we pay are in the shape of stationery. After the payment of the bill, we need to have the record for future reference. You also need to have your medical record file. As it is very important, especially for the doctors to know your history. The other habit which we need to have is to keep everything in its proper place as mentioned in my earlier blog. As we are living in the digital age and feel that the use of hard copies is finished. No. It is still in and will remain in, as many people love to write. To keep in touch we now use emails and other apps to share our views. But writing a letter or a greeting card has its own beauty. After some passage of time when you look at your old documents, it comes in as your history. Most of the time it is good for the family. Sometimes we need to know about our ancestors. The market sales show that stationery is still one of the most selling items the world over. Then after saying all this you must have a place in your house for writing or a study which can be used by all family members as per their need. Make writing a habit. It is good. Sometimes your words may be advice for others. You can also refer to another blog written earlier about study too.

Listening – An Art

 

Listening –  An Art

Good speaking is a big quality but good listening is the bigger one. A good speaker must be a good listener otherwise he cannot speak effectively. Listening gives us wisdom, knowledge, and experience in an indirect way. It takes place in a daily routine in homes, in classrooms, in offices, in schools, and in different social groups. At a time, one speaks and many others listen. So, listening takes place more often. 

Good listening is listening carefully, when one is speaking try to forget about what you were going to say next. In this way, you can better understand whatever the speaker wants to say. We can be a good listeners by keeping in view these factors:

Make Eye Contact

Looking directly at the person who’s speaking is a clear way to indicate you’re paying attention to him or her. Looking away, even if you’re still listening, will make it seem like you’re distracted or not interested. It will disturb the speaker.

Make Appropriate Facial Expressions.

Nodding, tilting your head, smiling – all of these expressions show a response to what the speaker is saying, which indicates that you’re grasping the meaning, understanding what the speaker is trying to say, and are interested in what he or she’s saying.

Ask Questions.

Critical listening involves asking questions to get all the information. When you ask the speaker a question, it also drives the conversation and shows that you’re interested in clarification and understanding the issues. It is a very effective strategy. 

Don’t Interrupt.

Although it’s good to ask questions, try not to interrupt the speaker. Let the person complete his or her thoughts before responding or asking questions. In this way, we can give comfort feeling to the speaker.

Paraphrase.

When you restate, in your own words, what the speaker is saying, you prove that you’re listening carefully – after all, you wouldn’t be able to repeat anything if you weren’t paying attention.

Listening Can Be Of Different Types Like:

Careful listening:

The steps discussed above are of careful listening. These are very important and basic. Without these, we cannot listen to others in an effective way. 

Sympathetic Listening:

A good listener must not only be careful. It is possible that we listen to someone very carefully and try our best to fulfill the demands of it, but it cannot help out the speaker. So, to listen with care and with sympathy is a must. In this way, we can respond to the speaker in a better way. We can give him some suggestions to handle certain situations. Different options can help the speaker in some possible ways. This kind of attitude will work in an effective way to relax the speaker.

Empathetic Listening:

Empathy means the quality of the listener to try to feel by placing him/herself into the speaker’s shoes or situation. This quality is too effective for a listener and beneficial for the speaker. It is observed when the speaker tells his/her problem and the listener listens and might listen carefully but could not understand the problem fully and tries to give any suggestion or advice which is not relevant. This kind of response can irritate the speaker. If a listener tries to listen empathically, tries to fully understand the situation then suggests some remedy, it will work better. It is important to place him/herself in the place of the speaker and try to understand his/her feelings.

Listeners may also have the quality to respond to different types of talk in a relative way. If it is a usual and casual one, then he can listen in a light and casual way without responding seriously. In that case, if you try to respond very sympathetically or empathically, it can hurt the speaker. The above-suggested qualities can help in certain situations. A good listener can decide according to the demand of the situation very intelligently that how must he/she respond. In this way, we can perform an effective role in our society and surroundings.