Need of Empathetic Attitude with Transcenders

    Some decisions are not of our own but are from our creator and we ought to accept them. People who adopt the appearance of males have some masculine tendencies and those who have feminine tendencies, they adapt accordingly. In our society, the life of transcenders is full of issues. To lead a successful life, we have to deal with it with acceptance, patience and intelligence.   

In our culture, it is considered an extreme situation to have a transcend child. Parents have to face very high social pressure to give their beloved child, to the community of transcenders. Then these innocent children are brought up without their original families and especially their mothers. They are reared by someone in their new homes. In most of the cases, they are not provided with educational facilities. At a certain age, they start their work, i.e. not respectable at all. 

    Transcenders are children of a special kind. If their parents will own them and give them normal care, they can have a better life. Parents can train them according to their tendencies and set their lives as boys or as girls. In this way, they can enjoy most of the beauty of life. They must face society’s pressure and provide them confidence and full support.

    There are many examples of transcenders, who lead a normal and successful life. One of my teachers was transgender, the boss of my uncle was also transgender. A transgender became the second wife after the death of her real sister.

We must give them due respect as human beings and as part of our families. Except for marital relations, they can lead successful life. In this way, we can insert life into their lives.

Rights of Special People

Special people are part of our society, having special rights. We see these if these people have some disability they may have some special quality. These people are the citizens of their countries and have same rights as other citizens. They may require some specific care. We can make their lives from good to best by accepting them with their disability.

 

Disabilities can be of different kinds; physical disabilities like blindness, deafness and dampness, and mental disabilities like mental retardation and other psychological disorders. All of these are considered disabilities and require special care. In this way, we can help them out. 

We observe around us these people with many issues i.e. access to education, medical help,  job opportunities, easy mobility and respectable relationships. These disabilities can be faced by anybody at any time. So, we must not consider them strange. They are humans like us, with some issues. They require equal rights, equal opportunities and special rights as well.

We must care for them but must not over-protect them. We can take care by: 

1. Listening to them carefully 

2. Speak with them with care

3. Asking them before offering help

4. Making them feel confident

5. Respecting their personal space

6. Providing every possible support

In these ways, we can help them. In fact, their rights are human rights based on principles of dignity, autonomy, equality and respect. Society must be responsible not only for their care but for their betterment economically and psychologically.

In this way, we can make them productive members of society by providing them care, special rights and respect. We can make our society more productive and positive by providing them support and respect.

Influence of Group on Personality

      Individual is influenced by so many factors like atmosphere, health, ecconomic conditions, family set up and influence of any individual or group around us. All these have a very strong impact on our personality and we are not in a position to avoid them. We can change our lives from good to best by trying our best to improve all of these conditions. 

      Among all these factors, one factor can be in our control to some extent  i.e. choose our friends and group. We see our group usually affect our attitude, our behavior, and our personality. It will not be easy for us to keep ourselves free from our group’s influence. 

       

       Conformity: It is a most indirect form of social or group influence in which individuals change their behaviour or beliefs to deal  more closely to the behaviour of others in the group.. People conform because it is comfortabl for them to survive more easily in their surroundings.In this way we can face group pressure in a better way.

      Friendship is a very positive relationship and friends prevent isolation and loneliness and gives us a sense of companionship and belongingness. Friends can also boost our happiness and reduce our stress and hardship.

      

      

           Our group is our strength by providing us support and protection. If  we want to take a difficult step, we can face many issues and opposition, but with thesupport of our group, we can do it comparatively easily and in a better way.

           We cannot enjoy life in isolation. Our enjoyment, our necessities,     and our success depends upon the people living around us. If we want to start any business or we want to marry, or we have to face any difficulty in life, without support of people, living around us, we will feel helpless. So, support of others is crucial for our life. 

           We must adopt an good attitude of sacrificing and accommodating with others. In this way we can lead a successful and happy life.

The concept of group influence is that people will change their behavior for the benefit of the majority or whole group. The evidence-based theory relies on the basic principle that people repeat behaviors that receive a positive outcome, response, or reinforcement.

Hygiene is Must

Hygiene is a definite part of our lives. Hygiene refers to behaviors that can lead our lives from good to best by improving cleanliness that lead to good health. In this process frequent handwashing, facial cleanliness, and bathing with soap and water are included.

Hygiene includes a lot of areas like our homes where we live. Good home hygiene helps prevent the spread of germs and infections. Bacteria may hide in different parts of the house, so we have to clean these areas regularly. Be mindful of dealing with bacteria as you cook and clean in the kitchen to reduce the risk of contracting foodborne illnesses. This kind of care can protect us from many diseases and health related problems.

Cleanliness is recommendable in all religions. Allah likes cleanliness and stated it as commendable for all of us. It includes a lot of areas of our lives. Like:

• Dental hygiene: 

Teeth are a very important part of our body; our personality and our health depend upon our teeth. So cleaning our teeth twice a day is necessary. Then take milk at least one glass of milk a day. It will make our teeth and bone strong.

• Hand washing: 

It is important for our health because it can prevent us from germs and diseases. It must be done frequently, like before and after taking meals, after going toilet, after dealing with garbage and after coming back from the market place. 

• Menstrual and genital hygiene

It is important to change sanitary products regularly and to wash your hands before and after changing pads, or any other sanitary products. If it is not implemented, then so many internal infections can be resulted. 

• Healthy Food:

Food is an inevitable part of our lives. Fresh and healthy food, cooked in low oil can be helpful for our health. Food that is not placed in the freezer for a long time, is more healthy. 

Hygiene is important for all of us. It is in our hands to take care of it. We can save our lives and the lives of our loved ones by achieving an optimum level of hygiene.