Real Happiness

 Real Happiness is a relative term, differs for everyone. What is common for all may be the feelings of calmness, peace and enthusiasm. Real happiness is the most important to make our lives good.

There are different meanings of happiness, expressed in the quotes about it. Someone says “Whoever is happy will make others happy”, “Real happiness doesn’t come from getting everything you want. It comes from sharing what you have with people who matter” and “The real happiness is self-contentment”. These are some quotes about real happiness. All present some colour of this term and shows the depth of it.

Happiness is a human construct or an abstract idea with no equivalent to actual human experience. Happiness is a state of human experience, which is found occasionally, not constantly. It is an internal feeling that makes a person cheerful in a certain time period.

The cause of happiness varies from person to person. Some feel happy about having some good remarks from others, some on buying a new car, some on eating a favourite food. Some on seeing the play, some on listening music of interest and some by making others happy. It is also possible that one thing is valued by someone but not by others.

In our common life, we can have some ways to make ourselves happy, for example, be with those people who make you smile, expect good by being positive, do things you love or at least do your tasks in your desirable ways, to your heart, push yourself not others, find purpose in your life and make others happy.

Our attitude towards life can make us happy or unhappy. Positive attitudes lead towards positive feelings. Those who remain calm do not find faults in themselves or in others usually remain happy. Every event, every situation and every person have different aspects and can be taken differently. Those who always see the dark or grey area of everything, remain unhappy and vice-versa.

Helping others can make you happy. Those help others by their behaviour, attitude, talk and gestures remain happy. It gives you a feeling of satisfaction. The base of establishing giving others welfare institutes lies in the real happiness, that can be found after providing comfort and relief to others. It can give you real self-satisfaction, resulting in happiness.

If we lead such a life that revolves around ourselves can give us satisfaction and happiness. These are definitely a noble cause in our lives and values a lot. If we want to have a true kind of happiness in our lives, we must adopt any purpose before us like adding something valuable to our surroundings. That can create a positive change by providing something good to others that make them happy.