Etiquettes

 Etiquettes are the set of conventional rules of personal behaviour in a society usually in the form of an ethical code, including accepted and expected social behaviours. In making a society from good to best these etiquettes play a vital role.

Etiquettes are different for every field of life, like the family, the social set-up, the job specifications and the religious obligations. These are the rules for acting properly according to the expected norms of that area. These rules make the life of people more managed and accepted.

These are some important etiquettes that can help us lead a managed and happy life.

1 Be thoughtful:

It includes that we should try to do everything purposefully and thoughtfully. Our aimless activities and acts can create problems for us and wastage of time is a compulsion. 

2. Be helpful and cooperative:

It is very important to help people around us, especially those who are in trouble. It will make others relaxed and make us satisfied. It will result in a society that is more peaceful and satisfied.

3. Be cheerful: 

We try to remain relaxed and happy in our general life situations by looking positive side. Most of the things have their pros and cons. If we consider only the cons, we may remain in tension. So, to see cons or at least having a balanced view will create a positive impact. 

Always remain polite with others and speak gently. In this way, we can make others feel good and positive. It will encourage them to do something valuable, not only for them but for society as well. 

4. Don’t be bossy:

If we remain bossy with others and behave authoritatively, it will not only make others unhappy but make the whole atmosphere sad and unpleasant. We should be kind to others in normal conditions. If it is demanded to be somewhat harsh, then we must be within a certain limit and try to create some positive change. In this way, we can act more positively in our surroundings. 

5. Respect others’ views:

To make society peaceful and improving, it is crucial to respect others’ views and acts. If we are thoughtful, it is very much natural to have a difference of opinion. Everybody has the basic right of having a personal mindset. If we feel that there must be some change, we can try but by remaining kind and sincere. 

Etiquettes are the helping tools to run a society. These are different for different aspects of life. In our family, etiquettes are different from the etiquettes in offices or in mosques or in school or in-ground or in market.  Every place has different demands on people. The etiquettes of mosques are different from that of job and etiquettes of the market from that of driving. Success in all fields depends upon taking care of the etiquettes of that field. Those who don’t try to do this, cannot survive. 

The image of a nation depends upon the etiquettes its residents follow. If they follow these specific rules in their lives, they contribute a lot not only to image building but to the progress of their nation.