Self-Talk Is Really Meaningful

Human beings remain busy all the time in doing something. We usually are thinking about us or our related people and different issues we face. In all these, we do self-talk. We deliver different messages to ourselves continuously. We struggle in our lives to make it from good to best and our positive self-talk can play a vital role in it. 

 

Self-talk is our internal dialogue. It's influenced by our personality, our social and economic conditions, our family background, our past experiences and believes. It reflects our mindset, our ideas about life, our aims and motivational level.

 

Self-talk is something we do naturally throughout our waking hours. If we are doing positive self-talk, it is a powerful tool for increasing our self-confidence, enhancing our motivational level and making us more productive.

 

Self-talk really works. We cannot stay thoughtless anytime. We are sending some messages to ourselves all the time. These messages are so important in our lives and our future lives are dependent on these messages. These can uplift us and can degrade us as well. So, self-talk is of prime importance in our lives. We can analyze our self-talk and then we can change it in the desired way. The good news is that we have a choice in how we talk with us. It will require some conscious effort and practice.

 

In our lives, there are so many situations, when we feel down and discouraged. It is a common practice. If we want to get rid of that feeling, we have to change our self-image by changing our self-talk. In this way we can take help by reviewing our past examples of successes and happiness. People around us can also boost us.

 

Positive self-talk is an effective stress reduction tool. It is also used in psychology as a therapy. People with behavioural issues can change their lives only by changing their self-talk with the help of professional psychologists. From correcting negative thoughts to coping during difficult times, positive self-talk changes lives.

 

In our general lives, we must do some struggle with our negative self-talk. In this way, we can change not only our feelings but change the direction of our lives. Some positive self-talk can be like: I am worthwhile and my thoughts and feelings are valuable or I am grateful for my healthy body and healthy life or I must be kind with me and with others, to make them happy. In this way we can improve our scenario, positively.  This will be a great blessing for us and the world around us.

Loyalty: A Valuable Quality

Loyalty: A Valuable Quality means to be faithful to one’s commitments and obligations. It is vital for our different relations, which are meaningful to us. In making our lives from good to best loyalty can play a vital and crucial role. 

 

Loyalty is an important component in relationships, whether romantic, familial, social or otherwise. It can help build stronger bonds and create social support. Loyalty can be fostered by being honest, supportive, respectful, appreciative and caring. Loyalty is the ability to put others before yourself and stick with them in good times and bad.

A loyal person will value honesty above everything else and this is the primary trait. A loyal friend may not agree with you on every matter good or bad. We must never be pretentious. A loyal person will always let you know the truth even if the opinion does not match with yours. If we show our loyalty to someone, who is the enemy of our country, then our loyalty to our country will be compromised, which is not acceptable. The main attribute of any person is honesty. If honesty and ethical correctness are compromised, then loyalty is of no use.

It is hard to define loyalty, but very easy to recognize it. Loyalty is valuable because it allows us to take the risk of predicting the actions and behaviour of people we trust. One may not always correctly decide who to be loyal to, and some people may even disappoint us or deceive us. There are some traits which can help us to judge a loyal person like:

1. Honesty. A loyal person will value honesty and it is the primary trait.
2. They stand with you in all circumstances and take a stand for you.
3. They always respect their boundaries, are religious, and ethical and remain patriots. 
4. They cannot be jealous of anyone. They celebrate the success of their related people.
5. They have a positive attitude towards life.
6. They invest in their relationships. They don’t only provide verbal service, they practically invest something valuable into it.

The meaning of loyalty in a relationship implies being fully committed to a person without cheating. If we are not honest with someone and cheat him by suggesting dishonestly. Then we are not loyal people. A loyal person is selfless. He does not leave his loved ones in terrible conditions alone. He stands with his loved ones in all conditions, good to worst.

We must be loyal to all our relationships, with our family, our professions, our relatives, our neighbours and our country. The first and foremost thing is honesty. It mustn’t be compromised in any case.

Do Positive And Spread Positivity In Your Surroundings

Everything has many shades, different from each other. If we consider the brighter one, then we feel better. To have a life going from good to best, it is commendable to see around us with a positive mind. In this way we not only will do good for ourselves but we will be able to spread positivity in our surroundings.

  

To have a pleasant life is the aim of all of us. How can we achieve this noble aim? It is the crux of positivity around us. We can make a difference by changing our attitude somewhat in a positive way, on different levels.

 

Positive vibrations can bring you, and others, happiness and satisfaction. Positive thinking welcomes more positivity into your life and nourishes the spirit. Having hope and faith that positivity can exist and believing in the possibility of a positive outcome. So, we can behave accordingly, the easiest way is by giving a smile, it can give a positive signal to others and brings happy feelings. Another way is to give a good compliment, it can do miracles in other’s life. We can send an encouraging message to someone, which can change the mood on a temporary or permanent basis. We also can help others by doing some practical favour or by giving some good advice or at least by saying something positive. One more thing that can help the most is to try to digest others’ negative attitudes and instead of giving the response of the same negative taste, deliver some positive reply. It will be a more challenging one but really will help a lot.

 

This positive change will be helpful in our daily life. We can start with our home, which is our ground level. If we can change our home surroundings by changing our mode of behaviour, it will be the real change.

 

Then our workplace is another point, that matters a lot. It does not matter a lot that at what post, we are working, we can make a valuable change by changing our behaving style. If our post is influential, then this change can work in a dramatic way.

 

We can spread this positivity in all around us by taking these small but very influential steps. We can make other's life more tough and miserable by passing negative and discouraging remarks and we can also try to make other's life easier and more pleasant by passing positive, encouraging and facilitating remarks. The choice is ours. We can decrease the negativity around us and increase happiness, positivity and satisfaction by changing our attitude and way of behaving.

For A Man To Conquer Himself Is The First And Noblest Of All Victories

This wise quote is by a wise man Plato. He was the student of another very wise and divine personality Socrates. Plato in fact wrote the ideas of his teacher. This saying says that the main thing to do for a person is to conquer himself by knowing his strengths and weaknesses honestly and by trying to improve his personality. If we want to make our lives from good to best, this strategy will be the very effective one.

 

Usually, people think it is an outstanding achievement to conquer territories and people. It definitely requires many specific abilities and characteristics. It may require a bold and harsh attitude against others with a selfish hidden desire. According to this beautiful saying the real triumph is not to conquer others but to conquer our own self.

 

This achievement is not really easy to do. To conquer himself is the first and noblest of all victories. To understand your strengths and weaknesses and then to do a struggle to control the negative aspects by suppressing your desires. It is the real Jihad. That is required as the grass-rout level of changing the society in a positive direction. If we want to live a truly positive life, we have to start with ourselves. Then we will be able to try to change the lives of others.

 

The truly brave person is not one who conquers others but true bravery is to conquer ourselves by doing a struggle against our evil personality trends and a conscious effort to adopt positive qualities. In this way, we can take one step towards positivity and lightening our surroundings. This one step may be the start of the brightness of goodness in the darkness of negativity.

Pleasure In The Job Puts Perfection In The Work

“Pleasure in the job puts perfection in the work” is a quotation given by Aristotle, who was a great philosopher of the Greek age, but his sayings are marvellous. Pleasure in the job puts perfection in the work. It is crucial to work for leading a successful life and for making it good, it will be important to have satisfaction and pleasure in the job.

It is a fact that if you are satisfied with your job, you will be better, the quality of your work will be improved and finally, it may result in the development of society. We know it is an ideal condition, which must be our target to achieve. Question is, how can we get this ideal condition? 

It can be done in two ways: one is by making the jobs easier and enjoyable by management and the other is to make our jobs interesting for us. For this these steps can be helpful: 

  1. Be clear in your goals:

To make our jobs easier and more interesting, it is important to be clearer about our job goals. If we work hard for 8 or more hours without knowing our goals, then it will be difficult to work effectively.

  2. Make a To-Do List:

If we make a list of the tasks, according to their priority, then it will be easy to concentrate on the important tasks first. In this way, we can save our time for all other tasks in a good way.

  3. Save time for emergency tasks:

In this way, we can save our precious time for any unexpected emergency tasks. It is an important quality of a good worker.

  4. Trust in co-workers:

If we try to do everything by ourselves, it will not be possible for us to complete our duties in time. So, it will require that we guide our team workers effectively and then trust them.

  5. Save your time:

It is also very important to work honestly, do not save your precious time. In this way, you will find extra time to check your work and in choosing better ways to do your work.

  6. Be relaxed during work:

It is very important to be relaxed during your work, by taking small breaks after one hour or so.  In this way, you can better concentrate on your work.

 

A perfect job is one where you feel satisfied and look forward to going to work. It is important to note that the specific elements that make up a perfect job are different for everyone.

 

This enthusiasm and motivation will only come with a sense of satisfaction and happiness in one’s work which is given to them.

 

Give A Man A Fish And You Feed Him For A Day; Teach A Man To Fish And You Feed Him For A Lifetime

This beneficial kind of quote is really meaningful. It is very important to fulfil some-ones need on the spot, but it will be more positive to make him able to fulfil his need himself. It will help a lot in making life good to best, not only of the person but for the whole society.

This quote is by Maimonides who was a medieval Jewish philosopher with considerable influence on Jewish thought. According to it, we want to make people independent, not depending upon others, we try our best to help them in finding some job or way of earning their living. In this way, we do a commendable job by making them independent. 

 

Teaching a person some useful skill can be more beneficial in the long run than filling a need for them temporarily, that’s basically the meaning of this proverb. If we help someone and give something, that can fulfil his need is not bad but to make him habitual of this help will make him dependent on us. On the other hand, if we help him in establishing some work or helping him in providing some job, it will make him independent. It will be more desirable.

 

The real help is to make a person able to achieve his livelihood himself. It will not be an easy thing in reality. To guide someone to try to earn something is important but cannot be successful all the time. In this process, our help can be helpful for him. In some cases, where having a job or some work is not easy or possible, the importance of charity is established. It is a divine system where the people who need our help are there. Where there is any possibility available, it will be commendable to help in making people independent, free from the charity.

 

If we flourish this wisdom in the world, it can do miracles. It is relevant with the reference almost all over the world; not only at an individual level but at the national or state level. In this way, we can make countries really independent, free from all kinds of pressures.

Whatever You Are Be A Good One

This quote is written by Abraham Lincoln, who was the president of America. He wants to say in it that it is not important to have a special position or important place, but more important is to perform well in every position you have. In this way, we can make our lives from good to best, by having a good impact of us on our surroundings.

 

Abraham Lincoln was a very famous and beloved president of America. We know that in that important position in this world. If in this influential position, one tries to be a good one, then definitely he will be a good person with a very positive mindset.

 

The main lesson in this quote is to “be a good one”. It means that we must do a conscious effort to behave in a very positive way, in our all roles and positions. This effort will make not only our lives, in the right direction but also create a good impact on our surroundings. This is the crux of this beautiful saying.

 

If everyone tries to act upon this saying, then there must be a journey towards betterment. If an influential personality like the president of the United States of America, presents a quote like this, it means he tries to improve his performance. It will definitely encourage others to follow him by doing something good. If in all fields, people will do good, then there must be a positive change in the whole society.

 

If parents become better parents by doing something special, children try to become better children by doing some good, teachers try to be good teachers, factory workers work better and all other people strive to achieve a higher level of performance, then the lives of individual level, familial level, upper level and governmental level. In this way, we can develop our whole society, which is a high achievement.